Here are some questions that will help believers in Jesus live right in a wrong world. The source of these questions is Kent Hughes’ Liberating Ministry from the Success Syndrome. He asks these five groups of questions.

Group one: are we being desensitized by the present evil world? Do things that once shocked us now pass us by with little notice? Have our sexual ethics slackened? Group two: Where do our minds wander when we have no duties to perform? Group three: what are we reading? Are there books or magazines or files in our libraries that we want no one else to see? Group four: what are we renting at the local video stores? How many hours do we spend watching TV? What about adulteries? How many of those did we watch last week? What about murders? How many did we watch with our children? The last group: How many chapters of the Bible did we read last week?¹

These are some good ‘living right’ questions to answer. The writer of Proverbs also weighs in on the subject. What does a wise man say about living right? Let’s take a look.

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What a Wise Man Said About How to Live Right

• Over the next couple of posts, we will take a look at the plain teaching of scripture on the subject of how to live right.

Proverbs 1:8–10 (ESV) — 8 Hear, my son, your father’s instruction, and forsake not your mother’s teaching, 9 for they are a graceful garland for your head and pendants for your neck. 10 My son, if sinners entice you, do not consent.

If Sinners Tempt You to Not Live Right, Do Not Consent

• There are three words that we need to define to clarify what the writer of Proverbs is communicating in this verse.

To Live Right Understand the Hebrew Word ‘Sinners’

• The Hebrew word ‘sinners’ is hattaim and in this context describes professional criminals, a gang of robbers.²
• The word describes people who do evil for a living.
• These ‘sinners’ are not of the sort who do evil because they are sowing wild oats or just being mischievous because of their youth.
• Mobsters, gang leaders, contract killers are in view here just look at the list of crimes that this group intends to commit.

Proverbs 1:11–12 (ESV) — 11 If they say, “Come with us, let us lie in wait for blood; let us ambush the innocent without reason; 12 like Sheol let us swallow them alive, and whole, like those who go down to the pit;

• Lying in wait for blood is cold calculated premeditated murder.
• It’s death row worthy evil.
• ‘Let’s ambush the innocent without reason’, they say to the young recruit.
• What is that?
• It’s killing for fun.
• There is no rhyme or reason for the attack.
• Think of the heinous and infamous demon possessed murderers that have stalked planet earth when you look at these verses.

To Live Right Understand the Hebrew Word ‘Entice’

• The next word that helps paint the image of what the writer of Proverbs is trying to teach his son not to do is the word ‘entice’.
• ‘If sinners entice you, don’t consent’, is the instruction.
• The Hebrew word ‘entice’ means to provoke someone to do something through deception or persuasion.
• Evil is always on the recruiting trail.
• If you remember, Jesus alluded to this.

Matthew 23:15 (ESV) — 15 Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you travel across sea and land to make a single proselyte, and when he becomes a proselyte, you make him twice as much a child of hell as yourselves.

• The bottom line here is ‘watch the company you keep.’
• A friend who tries to pull you from the things of the Lord is no friend at all.
• If sinners entice you, run the other way.
• That’s how you can live right in a wrong world.
• When sinners try to provoke you into joining their company and partnering with their deeds, cut off all relations.

1 Corinthians 15:33 (ESV) — 33 Do not be deceived: “Bad company ruins good morals.”

• This is true no matter how strong your morals are.
• When sinners entice you, they are appealing to the sin nature in your flesh.
• As a born-again child of God, your spirit is new.
• Your insides have the life and nature of God in it.
• But, your outsides are still chained to the sin nature.
• That’s why you have to say ‘no to your flesh.’
• And, that’s why you have to say no to a sinners enticements.

To Live Right Understand the Hebrew Word ‘Consent’

• The Hebrew word ‘consent’ is the third word we should know and it means to be willing or to be or become inclined or disposed to something; often used of tasks.
• When sinners entice you, do not become inclined or disposed to agree with their offer.
• One of the strongest weapons you have in your arsenal against sin and temptation is the word ‘no.’

Romans 13:12–14 (ESV) — 12 The night is far gone; the day is at hand. So then let us cast off the works of darkness and put on the armor of light. 13 Let us walk properly as in the daytime, not in orgies and drunkenness, not in sexual immorality and sensuality, not in quarreling and jealousy. 14 But put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh, to gratify its desires.

• You see the admonitions here.
• Cast off the works of darkness.
• Put on the armor of light.
• Walk properly or decently and becomingly in the daytime.
  • Not in orgies meaning you are saying ‘no’ to this avenue of sin.
  • Not in drunkenness meaning you are also saying ‘no’ to this avenue of sin.
  • Add to this sexual immorality, sensuality, quarreling, and jealousy meaning saying ‘no’ to these avenues of sin.
• So, when sinners entice you when they appeal to the sin nature in your flesh, do not consent, say no.
• That’s one way to live right in a wrong world.

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